1. How to use this dictionary
You don’t need to memorize everything. Skim, screenshot, come back whenever you see a word and think, “okay but what does that actually mean?”
- All terms are SFW explained (no graphic detail).
- Meanings are written in plain language, not academic essays.
- Examples show how the word works in a sentence or in a mood.
2. Core identity & vibe words
bimbo (modern version)
Meaning: A person—usually very feminine—who leans into being soft, pretty and playful on purpose, while still having standards, self-awareness and a brain.
Vibe: Not “dumb”, more like “I choose my battles, and I choose to look cute.”
Example: “I’m in my bimbo era but my Google Drive is immaculate.”
soft girl / soft era
Meaning: A phase or persona focused on gentleness, softness, romantic visuals and low-drama energy.
Vibe: Blush, gloss, cute outfits, less shouting.
Example: “I’m done fighting with everyone, I’m in my soft girl era now.”
high fantasy
Meaning: A version of your look or life that’s clearly too perfect for everyday reality—styled like an influencer, edited, dramatic—but still fun to play with.
Vibe: “Real but turned up to 120%.”
Example: “This outfit is high fantasy, I’m not going to the grocery store like this.”
main character energy
Meaning: Acting and styling yourself like you are the focus of the scene—not in a rude way, but with intention, posture and presence.
Vibe: Confident, a little cinematic, not hiding in the background.
Example: “I’m walking through the lobby like I’m the main character, even if I’m just picking up a package.”
coquette
Meaning: A flirty, girly aesthetic with bows, lace, little heart details, a mix of sweet and slightly teasing.
Vibe: Soft, pretty, a little vintage or doll-like.
Example: “Today I feel more coquette than full bimbo—bows, gloss and lashes.”
3. Aesthetic & styling words
hyper-feminine
Meaning: A style that exaggerates feminine cues: curves, gloss, pinks, soft fabrics, delicate details.
Vibe: “No one will confuse me with a minimalist tech bro.”
silhouette
Meaning: The shape your body and outfit make from a distance: where curves show, where lines fall, how long your legs look.
Vibe: The outline people register in 1 second before they see any details.
glossy
Meaning: Shiny in a controlled way: lips, hair, skin, nails or even environment that catch the light and look expensive.
Vibe: Not greasy, not sweaty—just polished and reflective.
high maintenance (reclaimed)
Meaning: Someone who requires effort—time, money, products, environment—to feel their best and doesn’t pretend otherwise.
Vibe: “Yes, I’m high maintenance, and I’m also worth maintaining.”
soft glam
Meaning: A makeup style that is clearly done but not harsh—blended, glowy, flattering, camera-ready without looking extreme up close.
Vibe: Everyday pretty with TV-level blending.
4. Behavior & personality words
ditzy (played, not real)
Meaning: Acting slightly distracted, dreamy or forgetful as part of a persona, while still being capable behind the scenes.
Vibe: “I know where my documents are. I just choose to act surprised by everything for fun.”
soft power
Meaning: Getting what you want through charm, presence, boundaries and vibe instead of shouting or threatening.
Vibe: Calm, warm, and somehow still in charge.
people pleaser (red flag)
Meaning: Someone who says yes to everything, ignores their own needs and ends up resentful.
Vibe: Cute on the outside, secretly exhausted inside.
high maintenance but low drama
Meaning: You like expensive, pretty things and put effort into your look, but you don’t create chaos or emotional mess.
Vibe: “I need good lighting and skincare, not screaming matches.”
5. Internet & era words
that girl
Meaning: A trend of being extremely organized, productive, aesthetic—perfect mornings, green juices, tidy apartments.
Vibe: Pinterest board come to life, sometimes a bit intense.
delulu (short for delusional)
Meaning: Tapping into hopeful fantasy about your life, looks or future, usually half-joking.
Vibe: “Delulu is the solulu”—playful delusion as motivation, not a diagnosis.
era
Meaning: A phase of your life with a specific aesthetic or focus.
Vibe: “Gym era”, “study era”, “soft bimbo era”—a way to rebrand your current lifestyle.
main feed vs stories
Meaning: Main feed is curated, polished content. Stories (or similar features) are casual, behind-the-scenes and ephemeral.
Vibe: Feed = gallery. Stories = diary.
6. Boundaries, safety & self-respect words
non-negotiables
Meaning: Things you absolutely will not accept or skip in your life—no matter how cute they are, how much they pay or how bored you are.
Vibe: Hard lines that protect your soft self.
standards
Meaning: The minimum level of treatment, behavior and lifestyle you accept from yourself and others.
Vibe: “Pretty is not enough. I also need basic respect and hygiene.”
overstimulation
Meaning: Your brain feeling flooded by too much light, sound, information or emotion at once—making you numb, anxious or snappy.
Vibe: Not dramatic, just your nervous system saying “we’re full, bestie.”
7. How to speak bimbo without losing your personality
You don’t have to copy anyone’s exact voice. Use this vocabulary to decorate how you already talk:
- Pick 3–5 words that feel natural for you (maybe “soft”, “glossy”, “high fantasy”, “main character”).
- Sprinkle them into your captions, notes and daily language.
- Drop anything that feels forced or like you’re wearing someone else’s costume.
The point of the dictionary is to give you options—not a script. The cutest version of your bimbo era is the one where your language, looks and lifestyle feel like they actually belong to you.